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In fact, quite the opposite — I find them beautiful.My perception of their beauty has nothing to do with my sexual desire.Then he said if I bulk up I'll notice the same thing because being stocky is more masculine and dominaant..and that being lean/skinny for a man is a bad thing because only women are supposed to be slim.Most Americans see grand people as unappealing, even disgusting.Many go so far as to make rude faces, poke fun, give unprompted advice on diet and exercise. I stand next to the man I love, my grand husband, as people look through him or, worse, chastise him with their eyes.
After you create your account, you'll be able to customize options and access all our 15,000 new posts/day with fewer ads. I've been slim all my life (its in my family's jeans), and the other day I was at the gym talking to this guy i see there sometimes and he said he noticed how much more attention he received from women after he put on weight a few years ago.Still, even through all the idiocy, I thought he was beautiful. They can be beautiful and funny, beautiful and campy, beautiful and quirky — but never simply beautiful.Then the most amazing thing happened: Paul Blart saved the day and did a sexy slo-mo walk across the parking lot to get the girl. They are comedians and foils, villains and sidekicks, but never beautiful and sexy in an honest and serious light.Even the word “fat” itself has strongly negative connotations; it’s one of our go-to insults, a favorite self-criticism.So much so that I fear that it will get in the way of any point I could ever hope to make.