Dharma dating canada
Get involved in community service, I've met some real nice people doing service work. Dating sites can't do that for you and you don't know if the person online is being truthful about themselves. I belong to an online site and try to get date ladies but as I've clearly explained my position, ladies seem to just not care! Especially when I'm being honest by stating "I'm not a fanatic or weirdo"?????? If you treat it with respect and like a sacred object, then thats one thing.
it doesn't say a thing about who you are, and personally, I'd be suspicious. Its best to refrain from talking about or displaying ones practice. Be a good person and do things you like, you will run into your lady if it's in your cards. As for a dating website or Facebook, simply listing yourself as a "Buddhist" without any additional qualifications should suffice. When you hang out with people you can see how people are in all sorts of situations before you get involved. The reason why I think that people would think I'm a bigot or liar is that on online things, people who are very spiritual can be viewed as "He thinks he's got the way or is above it all" or "He's too good to be true, he's lying, he's got something to hide." I'm serious, ANYTHING can be thought by people...period. But if you wear it in order to show the world you are a Buddhist, thats only attachment and is contrary to ones purpose in practicing Dharma.So there are a lot of questions I would ask if I were you. What kind of activities do you enjoy doing, books reading, relationships, pets... That's the 2nd most important thing you can ever learn about women.Perhaps for now since you are feeling frustrated, examine your mind, motivations, intentions, and so forth for awhile and try to gain some clarity for yourself. I describe myself as a Buddhist and it's fine, it's considered normal if not cool.