Many ABCDs only have exposure to South Asian culture by their parents and then maybe doses from friends.Meanwhile, other ABCDs, have had generations of family migrate to the West over many decades resulting different exposure and perspective.Being a womanizer, sexist or racist exists in Hollywood movies too. Personally, I needed space in my relationship and any over-the-top romantic gestures would feel cheesy or unnecessary.
I have been thinking, how in the world would a desi guy start dating an ABCD gal?
I had lots of exposure to his world and he had lots of exposure to mine. Every single scene where Aishwariya and Akshaye are together, he is begging and forcing his affection and she is confused, sad or saying no to him.
I later watched more old Bollywood films and saw the same patterns. For example, I realized that times when I clearly stated I didn’t want something, my ex-husband may have seen that as just playing hard to get or that with enough persistence, he could get his way. The guy begging for attention is seen as a loser and a man playing hard to get is at the core of attraction.
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