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Let him come to his senses when he's 28 and single.- While the above shadchan was making me crazy, my mother kept telling me, "you know, Dad only went out with me because the shadchan was pushy."Stories like that do nothing for me.

For every person who was pushed by a shadchan and went out on a date, there are a hundred who were pushed and had a date from gehinnom.

Me, being the bookworm that I am, could not deal without any kind of reading material and resorted to The Jewish Novel. I haven't read very many jewish novels since high school, but one that I did was Hearts of Gold.

When I was in high school, at a pretty mainstream yeshiva, we were not allowed to have secular books.

"If you try to please everybody, you please nobody." I'm sure you've heard that phrase dozens of times.

But have you ever really thought about it and tried to apply it to your own life?

Besides, in my situation, there were plenty of girls that I WANTED to go out with!

So that jerk had no right to stick his butt in where it didn't belong.

She finally realizes she needs to do what she feels is right and not worry about what everyone else thinks.Jewish novels are generally formulaic and terribly written. It's not the best piece of writing and it's incredibly girly (my sister gave it to me when i had nothing to read).They usually use some absurd title, and I feel like the author used a thesaurus for every simple word in order to make him/her sound intelligent. At the very least, it doesn't have the formula that almost all other jewish novels do.If anyone would call me or my mother, we'd explain that I was on a break, not pursuing anyone now.Okay, maybe we'll research it, but no saying "yes" till after finals, when I'd have my head cleared and ready to decide on the myriads of girls lining up outside my door for the chance to spend an evening with the Angry Miserable Dater.

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